The Internet Drain Bamaged me!

Before I "actually" start ranting, let me tell you the background to this entry...what prompted me? Recently a friend of mine asked a gal out and it was only the first time they had met, 3 days later they were seen going on a movie date...knowing this friend's character and also knowing a little bit about the gal's psychotic behaviour, i instantly laughed...my friend just came across as a desperate guy who wanted to pounce on the next single female he saw and she?...well she looked like any gal who enjoyed the attention of a guy...

But after much digestion of this indigestible drama, I asked myself was he desperate or was he just pro-active? I was once pro-active, saw a gal i liked, told my guy frens i was gonna try for her, and 30 days later, i was in a relationship...yes, this was for real.....but i m no longer like that..i like to think this is due to experience --> maturity-->too many ideals. I feel like an english teacher who suddenly forgot to spell APPLE... people, i was good at this once, if i liked someone, they were gonna know my feelings...but something changed somewhere, is this for good or for bad, i dunno.

During my stroll along the park, During my random wonder on the world wide web, i came across this interesting survey on the types of "first move" and what reaction can a guy expect from the ladies.To tell you the truth, I have tried many of these, n yes they work. I think my problem is not HOW, its more like WHEN and to WHO. Lets keep my problem aside, i think I can still live without a galfren, hahahah. The thing is I rather a few good frens then having "one" exclusive relationship (for now), but ladies, don let this put u off ok, u call me when eva u want...

what bout this online dating thing, huh? shall i experiment on that next? Its ok, its enough having parents who r mental about arranged marriage/arranged dating... i dont need a computer to do it for me as well....